Contrary to conventional thinking, it's never too late to learn a new language. Use these tips to get started.

How to Learn a New Language as an Adult

For more than two years, Dulcie Shoener of Milwaukee has done daily German lessons on her smartphone. To some, that might sound like self-imposed homework, but Shoener, a language lover and the copy chief for Reader’s Digest and other publications, knows something most others ignore. The answer to the question “how to learn a new language” starts with love for the learning process (followed by books and lessons). “I enjoy it so much,” she says. “It’s a delight to be able to read a short story in German.”
To be able to read, write or carry on a conversation in another language is a feat few Americans attempt, let alone achieve. According to a report by the Atlantic, just 7% of our university students study a language other than English, and less than 1% of American adults are proficient in a foreign language they studied in school. Of her college German, Shoener says, “I remembered very little.”
Yet the rewards for those who do learn a second (or third or fourth…) language are profound: increased travel opportunities, of course, but also improved memory, focus and ability to multitask. Bilingual brains are better shielded against cognitive disorders such as Alzheimer’s disease. And according to a poll conducted by the language app Babbel, knowing multiple languages can make you more attractive. Read on to understand how to learn a new language as an adult (and love it)!
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Can you learn a new language as an adult?
The short answer: absolutely! Before we dig in to how to learn a new language, it’s important to understand the many obstacles that lie in the path of learning a new language as an adult.
Why aren’t more of us multilingual—or trying to be? There are dozens of decent answers to that question, but one common retort doesn’t have much merit at all: the idea that adults, especially older ones, just can’t learn languages as easily as children can.
Linguists have long debated how old is too old to acquire a language, but newer research is refuting the idea wholesale. “There is no magical point at which it becomes impossible to learn a new language,” says professor Alison Gabriele, PhD, chair of the Department of Linguistics a the University of Kansas, who led a study published last year showing that adult learners—even as beginners—could process sentence structures in new languages much like native speakers. Separate research at Cambridge University recently found that language instruction affects adults and children in the same way.
While it’s true that children tend to pick up new languages quickly and easily, this has more to do with how they learn than how old they are when they do. Kids absorb and infer lots of information about language simply by listening to family, friends, teachers and the media around them. It happens without much thought or effort on their part, and when they do put in effort, it’s because they want to understand the story, joke or game that’s going on.
By contrast, adults tend to learn in rigid academic settings where they have little say in what they study and where the stakes are also higher. What Shoener can recall from her German classes is the pressure to maintain her grade point average. “I was horrified of making mistakes,” she says. “Now I’m not afraid, and I know I’m doing better than I did in college.”
How to learn a new language
If you dream of being bilingual, your age does not disqualify you. Make the process more fun—and, by extension, more successful—with these tips:
Find the motivation
Wish you had paid more attention in high school Spanish? Consider why you didn’t. Perhaps all you wanted out of the class was a good grade or to fulfill a graduation requirement.
Linguists call these incentives “extrinsic motivators,” but the most successful language students are “intrinsically” motivated, sincerely invested in their own learning. So pick a language you are excited to use, whether on a grand vacation or on your couch watching foreign-language soap operas.
Pick your tools
It might take some trial and error, but you’ll figure out which resources work best for you. Mobile apps such as Duolingo and Babbel gamify your learning. So if you’re someone who can easily spend hours playing on your phone, you’ll likely find these apps similarly addictive. Others, such as Rosetta Stone and Pimsleur, are less gimmicky but more rigorously researched.
Consider a conversation-based class on Italki or Idlewild. And don’t neglect books! McGraw-Hill and Barron’s offer excellent textbooks, grammar guides and workbooks with answer keys to let you see how you’re doing. But you may also enjoy children’s books, which offer simple vocabularies and easy-to-understand narratives all wrapped up in an enjoyable story.
Dive into learning a new language
Immerse yourself in your chosen language as much as you can. Watch foreign movies or listen to songs, even if they are just on in the background. Periodically look around you and see how many things you can name in the language you’re studying. Or better yet, label items around your home with those words. You’ll have no choice but to see them and, in very little time, learn them. After all, practice makes perfect!
Get social
Practicing with other people helps solidify what you’ve already learned and makes you more aware of which ideas you’re able to express. You don’t have to chat with native speakers, though various websites and apps, such as Language Exchange International, HelloTalk and TalkAbroad, can connect you with some, either for free or for a small fee.
Don’t sweat your language-learning mistakes
Kids get it wrong all the time. They’ll say, for instance, that they “goed” to school and played with other “childs.” But inherent in these errors is an understanding of the general rules: We use -ed as a suffix to put an action in the past, we add -s to make things plural and so on. Although kids often misapply these grammar rules, they pick up on the patterns and use them in novel situations. This is what successful learners do when figuring out how to learn a new language.
Sometimes you’ll miss the mark as you unknowingly stumble on an irregular verb or an exception to the rule. But more often than not, you’ll be right. And even when you do falter, those who are fluent should still be able to understand what you mean.
Do less (really!)
It seems counterintuitive, but you’re more receptive to picking up on language patterns when you aren’t hyperfocused on learning them. So rather than stare intently at a vocabulary list when learning, glance over the words while you listen to instrumental music. Or enjoy a glass of wine ahead of conversation practice—research at the University of Liverpool has shown that our ability to speak a second language improves after a bit of alcohol. Or turn on subtitles in the language you’re learning even as you watch TV in English.
Don’t devote your full attention to them—just enjoy the show and absorb what you can. The less you stress, the more you’ll be able to learn.
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Sources:
- The Atlantic: “America’s Lacking Language Skills”
- Alison Gabriele, PhD, professor of linguistics and the chair of the Department of Linguistics a the University of Kansas
- Babbel: “How Do Language Skills Weigh Up Against Looks In Modern Dating?”
- Cambridge University Press: “Age and learning environment: Are children implicit second language learners?*”
- University of Liverpool: “Dutch courage – Alcohol improves foreign language skills”
- Dulcie Shoener, copy chief for Reader’s Digest who is learning a new language as an adult